No Love in the Trenches

Don’t commit to any woman until you’ve seen these 5 sides of her clearly. https://x.com/menscoach1/status/1988950118926606472

1. Her Anger

Pay attention to her tone when she’s mad.

The calm ones with silent venom? They burn your soul quietly.

The loud ones who scream and insult? They destroy your respect in public.

Anger is the x-ray of her spirit. Don’t ignore what it shows.

2. Her Discipline Around Money

Give her Some money and watch her decisions.

If she can’t manage small, she’ll bury you alive when the zeroes increase.

A woman who worships luxury without labor is a walking trap.

She’ll love your lifestyle, but never your hustle.

Even the Bible said:

A foolish woman tears down her own house.

Love is sweetbut financial recklessness will make even Romeo sleep in the sitting room.

3. Her Circle of Friends

Show me her friends, and I’ll prophesy your next five years.

If her circle gossips, complains, and chases clout

She’s next in line for destruction.

But if her friends read, build, and pray

She’ll evolve with you.

The Bible said: Evil communication corrupts good manners.

Your queen becomes what her circle feeds her. Guard your throne, king.

4. Her Respect When She’s Offended

Some women can’t fight without trying to break you.

Disagreement becomes dishonor.

If she mocks you when she’s mad, that’s not emotion that’s hidden pride revealing itself.

A woman who can’t disagree with grace will slowly kill your confidence.

Respect is not tested in peace; it’s tested in conflict.

5. Her Relationship with Growth

Can she learn? Can she change?

If she rejects correction, she’ll reject your progress.

Marrying an unteachable woman is like hiring an employee who hates training

She’ll drag the whole company down.

A wise man chooses a woman who wants to grow,

Not one who wants to argue.

Modern dating is very complicated and only men who understand the game do win.

In my book No love in the trenches you learn everything to do with women and dating.